If you coach high school football, the relationship that you build with your team will be critical to the team’s success as well as their enjoyment of the season. While winning is important, what matters more is the way in which the football season is experienced. If you develop a solid relationship with the team, they’ll give you their all and respect your authority.
The Importance of Communication
Relating to today’s teenagers is quite a challenge for adults. Modern day high school students are heavily tuned into their electronics/social media and often tune out authority figures. Yet you hold the position of football coach; a title that most youngsters respect. When interacting with the team, it is important to communicate as clearly as possible. Explain exactly what you expect from your players in terms of performance, attitude and behavior. If they know what you want to get out of them, they’ll have something to strive for. The bottom line is that every athlete prefers a straight shooter for a coach.
Treat Your Players With Respect and They’ll Reciprocate
When it comes to criticizing or punishing players for poor performance or transgressions, the manner in which you treat them will go a long way in shaping your relationship. Don’t single out one player in front of his teammates. While each teenager reacts differently to criticism, most would prefer to be spoken to in a civil manner that does not involve yelling. If you are especially perturbed or disappointed with a player, have a one-on-one meeting with him so that you don’t show him up in front of his teammates. Kids are especially sensitive about their reputations amongst their peers and lighting one up in front of everyone could ruin his confidence.
Recognize That Football is Only one Aspect of Players’ Lives
While your team certainly wants to win, most players desire more out of the high school football experience than merely a successful season. Treat the opportunity to interact with your players as a chance to build their character and teach them life skills. If you make it clear that winning is not all that matters, your team will be more likely to appreciate your perspective and all aspects of the high school football experience. Don’t lose sight of the fact that these players have lives outside of the game that include academics, home responsibilities, families, significant others and much more. Following these tips will help you maintain a good relationship with your football team.